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Matthew McConaughey’s Life Advice Will Leave You SPEECHLESS (MUST WATCH)

sometimes it's not about what decision you make just make one and commit to it i think there's actually more value to unpacking that than even i'm giving it credit for because we you res your a versus b what do i do what do i do what do i do what i do what and as you know boom that window of opportunity shuts or you sit there and what i do i'm not sure i'm going to do this what do this a day goes by a week goes by a month goes by that girl that guy they're gone they moved to another town that job opening went to someone else that purchased the now what i do what do i do what i do a year goes by i got friends that decades gone by a lifetime's going by because they're still away in these two things and i think a lot of times it's like just choose one and jump the repercussions aren't near as bad as we think they are even if you choose the wrong one if we commit to one of the choices if it's the wrong one it will reveal itself to be the wrong one more quickly and clearly if we jump and don't just dangle our toe in it if we give it justice going i'm going to try and make this work i'm going wholehearted it'll reveal itself to be the right or wrong choice if it's the right one if it's a 50 50 chance bam i'm so damn glad i jumped and took the opportunity when it came i hit i hit the gap i took it if it's the wrong one we're like oh whoa this is not this is not right well now we found out quickly enough to pull the parachute and abort and back out or we jump in hard enough something brand new reveals itself because the options are compounding with whatever choice we make make one and find out and what's the big deal that's another percent what's the big deal if it's a wrong choice we got more time than we think time is on our side more than we give it credit for what's the big deal that people go well i don't want to do it because i want to waste that time in my life i don't know that's the wrong thing and you end up saying that for weeks months years decades when you look up you're like going oh i'm still measuring which one i should do and now i'm in my 40s now i'm in my 50s now i'm in my sick whoa just try it it's the worst it can happen it's the wrong decision so what reset come on back i at least i found out so i think it's i think that's a good one for us all to remember we're going through this rodeo of life sometimes it's not really which decision that's most important and dissecting them into limbo just or dissecting them into immobility dissecting them into paralysis just pick one go try one try it out what's the worst thing you order the wrong thing on the menu damn it i knew i should order that other thing well now you know so next time you come back now you you eliminated one now you know what to order and in my own life and around my own family we laugh at our warts we bring them up we shine lights on them where we don't get we've been taught don't get embarrassed about your screw-ups let's shine a light on them laugh out and move right on and carry on that's part of who we are actually preferably and i don't think that's just for say me and my immediate family who i was around i think that's for for most of us i think that's a good thing for us all to learn those things we cover up society tells us to cover up so much whatever they are whether they're warts or demons or whatever they're gonna come out and be revealed sometime in the future so why not just uncover it and go here it is here's who i am i'm doing the best i can i screwed up i failed over here i tried this one but it didn't work out uh my bogey sorry um whatever those things are live a little more transparently and again in this if we do that individually we're also more forgiving and resilient and pe with with ourselves and others we take we start taking more responsibility because we're not fearful of the failure maybe we we start to have more generosity uh which all those things lead to more freedom i do believe and that's not just for me i think that is for all of us so the characters though if you look at the last 12 years of work who've i played very men on an island men who had their own personal sort of ethos of how they were going through the word they weren't characters that were following the matters and graces of the of the the mean of the times they were on the outskirts they're a bit outsiders i love their independence i left their self-sufficient i love their will to survive i love their will to uh um there's certain inherent sense of optimism of i'm going to make this work i'll die for it well if you can find a character if i can find a character that's like no i'm what i want i'll i'm willing to die for whoa that's power now boy if we can find that kind of thing in life those non-negotiable things we're like non-negotiable now if we're on page 62 and i'm fighting the non-negotiable and i'm gonna i'm gonna die for it i'm well there we go i'm out i make it to page 62. that's as far as movie goes with me you know what i mean or how do i overcome that i like finding characters that that run into great resistance for which to have the opportunity to overcome um i look for that in my own life sometimes i think we have to i know i do have to create resistance maybe where there's not resistance because i'm looking around going kind of skating on easy street right now well sometimes when things are going right and the breeze is at your back enjoy it because the uphill is coming but other times you look and go feeling the breeze behind my back i'm only catching all green lights in my life now because i'm really not taking risks well maybe that's the time to go i got to create some resistance i got to reframe i got i got to make it a little bit more difficult on myself so i can dig deeper and figure something out about what i want to do that's going to be the right kind of risk or going to make me feel more alive or turn me on what did you uncover in your previous journals where younger matthew is your hero today something you had to relearn again like i already knew that when i was 14 and i'm learning it again at 50. there are things that i pulled off got away with in my youth that i still wake up having nightmares with today but i only wake up have a night where's with them today because now i know better and if i didn't know then what i knew now i'm i'm afraid i would have been able to pull a lot of those things off the ignorance is blistering there were things i pulled off because my my ignorance that i look back i'm like going dude you are so lucky how did you you almost got killed how did the percentage of you making out of that situation alive if you went back today are so low and we're so low then because of your ignorance because of your singular belief and that you could pull this off without and and you didn't you didn't get nervous at the situation where most people would get nervous or you went with the flow or you pulled the bruce lee sensei time you know um at the right moment

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